Tuesday, March 15, 2016

IT'S NOT MY FAULT

"IT'S NOT MY FAULT": "We habitually erect a barrier called blame that keeps us from communicating genuinely with others, and we fortify it with our concepts of who's right and who's wrong...It is a very common, ancient, well-perfected device for trying to feel better. Blame others. Blaming is a way to protect our hearts, to try to protect what is soft and open and tender in ourselves. Rather than own that pain, we scramble to find some comfortable ground." 
~When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chodron