WHAT A "MEANIE": "Sometimes people can be down right mean for no reason. Or is there? There's always a reason...Usually it has something to do with THEM and whatever they are going through...Meaning it's not you. Instead of being angry at them, ask yourself what it means for you. Maybe they teach you something from their behavior, or maybe it's an opportunity to let them go from your life. Instead of thinking the person is mean, ask "What does it mean?" It helps release the emotion and move into understanding."