HOW TO TREAT YOU: We get upset when people mistreat us, yet many times we allow it. We tolerate it for so long, then breakdown or explode. Some people will try to get away with all types of behavior, others may not realize they are doing anything wrong. It's your job to set boundaries, it their job to respect them. If they respect your boundaries, they will respect you. If they don't, it may be time to re-evaluate whether you need them in your life.