DIFFERENT PACE? GIVE 'EM GRACE: We all grow, but not at the same pace. We all heal, but not at the same pace. When someone is projecting anger, or other negative emotions towards you, they may still be in pain. They may not be going at your pace. You don't have to put your life on hold, continue to move forward. everyone's at their own place of growth and healing. Next time someone hisses at you, remember, they are at a different place, so give 'em grace.